I got married when I was 25 years old with a nice guy. He is the best partner who always care and love me so much. He is also a good father for our children. I have 2 kids, 7-year-old boy and 5-year-old girl. I love them so much and always take care of them.
Both of them are good child, they usually follow my directions for helping. Even that, I think I am not an easy mother who always accepts all offers from them. Sometimes, my kids become the stubborn children and break something in our house or do not eat dinner. I decided they have to be punished for their fault. One day, my boy did not want to eat dinner, so I gave him freedom to live in his room all night, of course without any kind of food or snack. The next day, I cooked some meals which he really loves. But I did not invite him to have dinner and said no if he offer because of his choosing yesterday. Her sister enjoyed his favorite meals so he felt regret. After 1 hour in living his room, he turned to my kitchen and said apology. He cried and promised he will never do like this. This night, he was really starving and ate like a small tiger. I also told my little girl that if you have any bad behavior like him, you will be deserve like that. Long time after, he never think about leaving the dinner.
I saw that some parents always looking after their children carefully and don't want their child get out of their arm. Opposite, I usually give them to the public place like park or let them play with other child even they argue or fall down. I think it is a good way to help them experience a new thing. Besides that, my husband usually offer them a conversation to connect together everyday and to know what they are thinking and what happened today.
These are what I pretend if I will be a parent. I will be a great mother and do everything best for my lovely child in good ways.
Totally agree with the way you are going to teach your children in the future. Spoiling them so much will not help them stand alone when they grow up. However, not only being strict, I also want to let them know how much I love them as well. I believe that you will be a good mom ^_^.
ReplyDeleteU will, too ^^
DeleteMisu, you made me confuse about how to treat children. Maybe it is because in my family our parents and grandparents used to prepare the food that children like and prefer to eat. This is because children are just a growing humans which have a different body construction not like adults. Anyway, I think that you will be a really wonderful mother and your children will be proud of you!!!
ReplyDeletethank you for suggestion, Jeren.
DeleteIt depends on my future child's behaviors ^^